I think that getting out and experiencing life yourself, instead of just watching it on TV or reading about it in a book (please do read my book when it comes out ;)), is the essence of a happy and productive life. I'm not going to wait around for life to happen to me - I am going to happen to my life, make a difference in myself.
In short, be the hero or heroine of your own very unique story.
This is a picture of paradiso!